Thee Baby Lady

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2011-10-11T13:13:00.002-04:00

Just an update to let you know that I started posting more blogs on my website. Here is the address http://TheeBabyLady.com.

It contains the latest news, including information my children's book publication! "Z Is for Zucchini: a Baby Foods Memory Book". It's available on my website.

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Montessori Part 2: Toys and Activities

2010-02-20T11:00:00.001-05:00

Here are some of my favorite Montessori toys/activities and how I use them.

Chunky puzzles - wooden shapes with large knobs for handles that make it easy for baby hands to grasp. Repeat the movement to teach baby to do it.

Blocks - wooden blocks in bold colors. Stack blocks for baby and then give baby a turn to participate. Sort blocks by color and say the color aloud. Give baby a turn. Drop blocks into a container or basket. Give baby a turn. As baby ages, place a shape sorter on top of the container. Sort blocks through a paper towel tube. Naturally, they tend to dump everything out too so let them play!

Stacking cups - Stacking cups can be used in many ways like building a tower or pouring water in the bathtub. You can also use them outdoors to pour water in a controlled setting, in a pool, in a sandbox.

Shovel, Pail, Watering Can - These items can be used indoors to tote around, sort toys into, bathtub time, or outdoors.

Balls - All appropriate sizes. Play sorting games into large bins, practice rolling the balls, tossing games, play chase, indoors and outdoors.

Water - Pour and splash, along with baby.

Stair practice - Naturally, age appropriate and adult supervised for climbing upstairs and descending.

Musical items - Use wooden musical toys or create your own homemade instruments. (Shakers, jingle bells) Use rice, beans, bells, rocks, etc in sealed old bottles. I put all musical items out of babies reach for extra safety when not in use.

Outdoors - Allow for daily outdoor activity, especially in nature, with large expanses. Take a blanket and place toys on it as a 'base camp'. Do above activities or explore. Take a hike. Practice watering plants, flower gardens, or vegetable gardens from a watering can. Dig in a sandbox. Pick flowers. Chase butterflies. Plant seeds in a small planter and watch them grow. Fill a bird feeder. Give baby a spoon to scoop seeds to fill the feeder. Small rakes, shovels, pails, large dry paint brushes, and brooms are good for digging, sweeping, and collecting rocks leaves, sand, snow, etc.

Other ideas:

Books - Find a book with real baby faces in it (not cartoons or drawings), expressing different emotions. Read with baby.

Toys or safe drawers that open and close for baby to explore. You can empty a bottom dresser drawer.

A box of colorful scarfs to play with.

Sandbox fun for pouring and digging.

Knock Knock - open and close a door with baby. You can sit on opposite sides of the closed door to play, or place a mirror on one side and open the door together to discover each other. You can also do this with a large empty box, because we know how much babies sometimes love the box more than the toy inside!

Stuffed Friend Circle - Place baby on floor in 12 o'clock position and complete the circle with stuffed animals/toys. Watch the smiles, grab a camera!

Play classical music.

The key to this is to aim to take out only the toy/activity you are playing with and have baby help put items away. Sing as you put the toys away "Clean up, clean up, everybody does their share". Repeat.

As your baby develops, you will be able to help them graduate to the next advanced activity.

Montessori Part 1: Method & Toys

2010-02-19T18:54:00.017-05:00

I recently had some queries regarding Montessori & thought I'd post some links. The Montessori Method is described here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Montessori_method

I love this book for ages birth through 3 years old (0-3):
http://bit.ly/9XWfcY

Melissa & Doug have great toys for Montessori that last very well. http://www.melissaanddoug.com

Babies 3 months and up can benefit from these wooden beads: http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39554693
Or a wonderful 5 piece set of objects:
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=40848843

This link sorts toys for 1 year olds through Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Montessori-Homeschool-Supplies-Year-Old/lm/R36CWRAMDEIRJR

Some of my favorite toys and activities will be shared in Part 2.

Going National?

2009-12-05T11:29:00.017-05:00

As I reflected on a friend's words to me, "You've gone national?" I couldn't believe it myself. Yes, I've gone national! I go into people's homes and assist the family as a postpartum doula or "Baby Professional" with their baby. And you know what? Sometimes these families travel; sometimes for business and sometimes for pleasure. As a traveling doula, I can be available to assist with their baby (babies) and other siblings. That can begin even before the trip, by assisting with packing or caring for babies while parents pack and then during the travels as well. I am also available as an antepartum doula for moms on bed rest.

I've even had previous clients who moved away, then flew me to their city to be available during a transition they were going through. They were relieved to have someone care for their baby while they handled other important matters.

I am also available as an antepartum doula for moms on bed rest. This is useful to moms who still need to get the nursery in order and were surprised with bed rest orders from the doctor. I like being able to customize options for a family, because each family is unique.

Of Kisses and Noses

2009-11-10T11:40:00.002-05:00

Little kids are often fond of spreading their love. It comes in different forms like priceless hugs, sticky fingers applied to clean clothing or hair, and sloppy kisses. As a "Baby Professional", certain boundaries are important to know, so I found some fun ways to handle the "kissing thing".

First, babies just learning to share kisses provide extra slobber. I generally keep a stuffed animal around for when they want to practice those kisses. As they enter toddlerhood, they want to kiss people. It makes them smile and giggle.

Fortunately there is less slobber involved now and to honor their request for a kiss, I started offering my nose. I call it "TheeBabyLady Nose-to-Nose Kiss". I offer my nose and lean in to tap my nose with the tip of their nose. It allows affection and appropriate intimacy for my role. All that aside, it's just way too cute to hear, "I want a nose-to-nose" as I'm walking out the door.

Twins

2009-10-21T18:19:00.003-04:00

Twins. Twins. Yes, I said it twice. I love the interactions between twins, and that goes all the way back to newborn status. I've taught baby massage for twins and I'm always fascinated by what happens. One twin may be sensitive on their left side, on the front and back of their body. And then the other twin is sensitive on their right side; again on the front and back of their body, but the right side only. Mom is always surprised to discover this when I point it out, and suddenly she understands her baby better.

I have alot more to say about twins, but I thought I'd start with baby massage observations.

Baby Massage

2009-09-08T17:38:00.002-04:00

I love teaching parents how to massage their newborns. Massage provides so many benefits for baby. Introducing massage to medically stable newborns can improve digestion, therefore helping babies to gain weight faster. Other benefits include increased bonding between mother/father and baby, boosting the immune system, deeper sleep, and all that goes with digesting food for the first time, such as gas, constipation, and colic.

Because the parent is the one who is learning how to give the massage to their own baby, they get the benefit of communicating this special way through massage. I have several dolls I use for instruction and teach the strokes on my favorite doll that provides great curves in the right places to teach the massage stroke. I demonstrate the stroke that I'm teaching on the baby doll and the parent does the same stroke on their baby. With each new stroke, I describe how much pressure to use, as well as apply how much pressure to use on the adult's arm as an example. Dads are reassured to discover how good they are at it and gain more confidence in their new role.

Some parents choose to learn baby massage before baby arrives. In that case, everyone practices on baby dolls and I again describe each step and let the parents feel how much pressure is needed for each stroke. I often encourage parents to learn the massage before baby arrives because they may have more time and remember to call me. Newborn massage is so gentle, it can be introduced right after birth and it's important to know the criteria to do so. The class I teach is designed to only need one meeting to learn the massage, allowing parents to get back to their focus: their new baby!

How Old is Your Baby?

2009-07-05T19:19:00.002-04:00

To me, they're all babies whether they are newborns, crawlers, or toddlers. "Babies" until they are around 3 years old and can no longer be called a toddler. They are even called "preschoolers" at that time.

In fact, once they reach around 3 years old, they will also start telling you that they are no longer babies. It upsets them because now they are a BIG girl or BIG boy. As adults, we just smile and keep it to ourselves for now....until we let it slip out again.

New Mom Meals

2009-06-17T07:05:00.000-04:00

New Moms really appreciate a meal that is already cooked and easy to grab. Soups in individual containers, a mild chili, pre-portioned individual meals or casseroles, pre-made sandwiches for the refrigerator and freezer, individually wrapped. For freezer sandwiches, don't use lettuce or veggies that wilt and use individual sauce travel packets so the bread doesn't get soggy.

I suggest it's a good idea for friends and loved ones to sit with the mom before baby comes and ask what she likes to eat. Then you have a list to work from and Mom doesn't have to think about it. I also provide this service when I work with a family. The best part is it can be customized for the family and in some homes, meals are the sole focus of what the busy family wants by way of assistance. Mom gets to spend more time with baby and siblings rather than in the kitchen.

Definitions

2009-03-12T12:59:00.011-04:00

I think the best way to start my first blog, is to explain my understanding of a definition. Trying to explain to others what I do generally brings a sigh, a good sigh, from the the listener. It also brings questions like, "Where were you ____ many years ago? I needed you!" etc. I'm not a babysitter and I'm not a nanny. I wear many hats and decided the term a "Baby Professional" describes me best.

One facet I fill as a Baby Professional is defined as a New Mother's Helper, an extended version of a Postpartum Doula, and "someone who helps you be the best Mom you can be". That comes in the form of one-on-one instruction, assistance, tips, etc. So much more than a nanny or babysitter, my focus is on the Mom as well as her bundle of joy. Through years of experience, including specific knowledge I have gained with twins, I have some special insights that even your closest aunt or grandmother will be delighted to find out.

I use the term Baby Professional because that is what I am. Helping Mothers and Babies is not just what I do, it is who I am, and my calling.